He thinks she's being needy. He thinks she's being clingy. He thinks he did put in effort to talk to her despite his busy schedule. He feels that she's not being supportive of him and being a burden to him. He thinks she's pulling him down.
She thinks he's being neglectful. She thinks he doesn't talk to her even when he has free time. She thinks he's being selfish by doing so. She feels left out. She feels unwelcomed.
Relationships are about effort and time. She feels he is not putting in both right now. Maybe he is, but she doesn't feel it, because the way he is treating her is just way to different.
They say communication is key, especially in along distance relationship. She worries that this relationship will break because of a lack of communication. How can you be a couple when you hardly communicate and are not part of each other's life? Couples need to be in the loop, they need to know who your close friends are, who you are hanging out with and what you are up to. They need to know each other's goals, and plans. They need to "be" in each others life.
Right now, she is feeling insecure about this relationship. She no longer knows whether they will have a future together. At this point of time, she still wants a future with him. But is she confident of one? The answer would be no.
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